The term “give grace” has been around since before any of us can remember, originally stemming from religious ideology, yet the older I get the more and more I seem to hear it. To “give grace” simply means to practice forgiveness and patience to those around us. In this we often forget to extend it onto ourselves or extend it too far. Like all things in life a balance in this practice is crucial, but in a society where too often we choose the extreme, a balance seems all too rare.  

One of the hardest truths in life is that nothing lasts forever and everything will change – more than once. Whether you want it to or not, you will find your world changing constantly. Sometimes it will be fast, other times slow. Sometimes you will fight like hell to keep parts of this life, while you let others go. Some things may come in waves and others you may never see again. The fact that these things that once defined you, are ones you may now lose forever, is a hard truth to swallow. The point of this post is to show you it is far more digestible than you think and that these changes can be some of the best parts of your life. 

 It is far too easy to look at others around you and push off their accomplishments or positive graces as “luck”. We do this because the explanation of universal chance is far easier to swallow than the possibility that others are simply more successful than ourselves. This very mindset is a part of what is holding us back. The truth is they didn’t get that internship out of luck; they don’t have your dream body by chance; and their smile isn’t beaming across their face just by coincidence. Others have features in their lives, not because they’re lucky, but because they’ve worked for it. The best way for you to become “lucky” is by doing the same, and of course by reading this post where I will walk you through how to increase your chances for good fortune. 

 It’s no secret that as humans we don’t enjoy lying in our own agony. That no one wants to feel lost or out of place. But what happens when this state is the only way to not fall or fail? To reach a potential one could only ever imagine?